Count Your Many Blessings – It’s a Choice

Count Your Many Blessings 1

When my husband and I lived in Virginia, we went to a small town church.  I remember when we first walked into that church just feeling like we were home.  The people were so sweet and kind and the singing during the worship service was incredible!  You could feel the life in the church and you could feel the hand of God there.

But my absolute favorite part of going to church there was being greeted by Johnny.  He had some major health issues and was in a wheelchair when we met him.  He was unable to communicate verbally, but he ALWAYS had a smile on his face and greeted each person that came in for every service.

Johnny loved to sing and our Pastor loved to have him sing.  We were not able to understand him verbally, but I know God was able to hear his heart of worship and that it was a sweet sound to Him.  His favorite song to sing was Count Your Many Blessings.

Johnny taught me three very valuable lessons: Continue reading “Count Your Many Blessings – It’s a Choice”

Unbreakable

God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved: God shall help her, and that right early.

……Psalm 46:5

Have you ever felt like you were shattering into a thousand pieces?  Like you couldn’t pick up the pieces quickly enough and put yourself back together so that you could take the next step forward?

Have you ever felt so alone in your struggle that you just want to quit?  In this moment when you look into your future, does it seem impossible and hopeless?

Recently, Satan has been after me.  When Satan comes after us, it doesn’t just affect us.  It affects everyone around us.  Our spouses, our families, our friends, and even our co-workers are affected by this struggle.

We can rarely control these things in life…most of the time we are just trying to “survive them.” I definitely have felt that way a lot and have said often to my husband, “I am just trying to survive this.”


“I am just trying to survive this”


I don’t know what your this is, but I know that there is a verse in Psalm 46:5 that bolstered my strength and courage.  It made me feel hope.  It made me feel cared for and it shoved fear right out the door.


God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved:

God shall help her, and that right early.

Psalm 46:5


Because it’s very hard to be afraid when you read a verse in God’s precious book that tells you HE IS IN THE MIDST OF YOU.  That because of HIM YOU WILL NOT BE MOVED.  And the one that brought tears to my eyes was GOD SHALL HELP HER.

Strength in God

I love the word SHALL in this verse.  It wasn’t a question of would He.  It was just a statement…God SHALL help Her!  Thank you Father!

Because we all need help!  And we all need to be courageous.  And Satan is always trying to break us, but we are unbreakable in Him.  When we seek Him in our every day lives.  Not just the bad days and not just the good days, but EVERYDAY.

God is who makes us unbreakable.  We can do nothing on our own.  Only He can help us!  Only He can keep us from being moved!  So spend some time with Him today and allow Him to make you unbreakable!


God is Who makes us Unbreakable!

Light Affliction

Chronic health issues can be a challenge. Currently I have 6 different diagnosed diseases. What this means for me (and those in my life) is that I have good and bad days. This also means that my plans are constantly up in the air and those who are in my life deal with a lot of cancelled plans or rescheduling.

It’s been a particularly rough stretch since right after Thanksgiving. I have had something going on every day for weeks on end ranging from extreme fatigue which brings on migraines to chronic hives, which make my entire body swell including the inside of my throat, as well as my face which can become life threatening.

This is not only exhausting and discouraging for me, but also for my family and friends. (Especially my husband who is the one person that goes through each and every day with me – the good and the bad.)

The one thing that gets us through all of the ups and downs that my health brings, is Jesus. It’s such a blessing to be able to cry out to Him requesting help. It’s such a blessing to know that the Holy Spirit speaks on our behalf when we have groanings which cannot be uttered.

This verse has always really been an encouragement to me when I’m going through bad stretches whether health related or not. It helps me focus my perspective on what really matters. It reminds me that there are seasons to life and that the lessons learned through each season (good and bad) will be worth it all when we see Jesus.

It reminds me to keep my eyes fixed on Jesus! It reminds me to keep my eyes fixed on the blessings God has brought into my life. (One of the biggest being those He has surrounded me with that help me through the tough seasons…especially my husband and family.) It reminds me that I do not have to look very far to find someone else who is going through something worse, and that I need to look for opportunities to reach out and encourage others. It reminds me to get my eyes off of myself and spend time in prayer for others. It reminds me that God is a good, good Father and that I can and should lean into Him. It reminds me to live moment by moment. It reminds me that I can face tomorrow because He lives.

Because He Lives
By: Gloria and William J. Gaither

God sent His son, they called Him Jesus
He came to love, heal and forgive
He lived and died to buy my pardon
An empty grave is there to prove my savior lives

Because He lives, I can face tomorrow
Because He lives, all fear is gone
Because I know He holds the future
And life is worth the living, just because He lives

How sweet to hold a newborn baby
And feel the pride and joy He gives
But greater still the calm assurance
This child can face uncertain day, because He lives

Because He lives, I can face tomorrow
Because He lives, all fear is gone
Because I know He holds the future
And life is worth the living, just because He lives

And then one day, I’ll cross the river
I’ll fight life’s final war with pain
And then, as death gives way to victory
I’ll see the lights of glory and I’ll know He reigns

Because He lives, I can face tomorrow
Because He lives, all fear is gone
Because I know He holds the future
And life is worth the living, just because He lives

I can face tomorrow
Because He lives, all fear is gone
Because I know He holds the future
And life is worth the living, just because He lives

You & Me

Several years ago, I bought this really cool sign that reads “You & Me”. I fell in love with it instantly.

You see just a few weeks before, I had a hysterectomy. It was so hard for my husband and I to think of a future without biological children.

Side note: the last thing we wanted to hear about at the time was adopting. We love adoption. My beautiful amazing little sister is adopted. I’d be completely and utterly lost without her. It’s a beautiful story that I would love her to share on here someday if she wants. Anyhow, when you are grieving a loss like that it was devastating to have people say….”Well you can adopt.” Honestly it made as much sense to me as someone telling a recent widow, “Well you can remarry.” Of course she can and maybe she will, but she doesn’t want to think about that right now. That doesn’t fix her grief. (Just in case anyone needs this information for future interactions with grieving humans.)

Back to my original thought process….oddly enough, I became obsessed with finding some kind of wall decor that expressed or new reality of family without children. (Furbabies excluded for the moment – sorry furbabies.)

Do you know how difficult it is to find family decor that does not include something about children? It’s as if in our society a family is not created until there are kids…and because this was something I was desperately having a hard time with myself, satan (not a grammatical error I refuse to capitilize that low life’s name) was using this lie to beat me up.

So when I found this sign, it was perfect! It described our family, “You & Me.”

As I lay here on our couch tonight, looking up at it I realized something even cooler about it. The & symbol is intertwined between the you and me. I love that because for David and I, we want God intertwined and woven into every aspect of our marriage.

Our goal is to have Him at the very center of all we do. (We fail at this, but God is always gracious to forgive us for our momentary lapses.)

And as I lay here tonight looking at this sign that I truly believe was a precious gift from God during a very difficult time, I realize that He also provided a very beautiful picture of Him in our marriage. Wrapped around us holding us together regardless of circumstances, or trials, health issues, or grief. God is weaved between us just like the & symbol in our sign. And now every time I look at that I am going to feel blessed and thankful and pray with all my heart that God is always at the center…the glue holding us together regardless of our circumstances or future. We want Him right where He belongs in our family…the very center of our hearts and our lives.

Path

“Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.” Psalm 16: 11

Path…

What does this word make you think of?  For me, I have a tendency to think of the many beautiful parks that we have with paths around this part of Ohio.  Some have paths around lakes, some are trails through the woods, and some are uphill and others are just flat.  Recently my siblings and I were able to spend a rare day together, just the three of us.  We went to one of these parks.  It was a new trail for me.  I had never been there before.  It was a gorgeous day and the path was around a lake.  There was also a portion of the trail that was in a meadow and there were butterflies everywhere.  It was beautiful to say the least.  And I was so glad that someone had told my brother about this particular path.  There were multiple trails to choose from and we were able to incorporate several of these paths into our walk for the day.

We all walk different paths…

Pointing this to our Christian lives, we all walk different paths.  Some of us choose to walk the path that God has called us to walk.  That does not mean this path will be easy, or that it will be the only path we walk.  It just means that we are choosing to walk in obedience to our Father.  By the way, this is what is best for us.  The lessons learned on these paths are life changing, and cannot be learned any other way.

Others choose to pick much more difficult routes then what God had in mind.  This definitely makes their paths tricky, and sometimes very precarious.  (Little secret for you: God can use even those difficult routes that God didn’t have chosen.  He just had a better path in mind, which would have made life better for you.)

God has different paths for all of us and different paths for different seasons in our lives.  My path is not the same as anyone else’s.  And my perspective of other’s paths have a tendency to come from a viewpoint of my own path.  (Sometimes helpful, and other times definitely NOT helpful.)

Back to the day with my siblings…

Although all three of us were together walking the same path, when I think back on that day I wonder how different our descriptions of the path would be.

My brother is in pretty good shape and works out often.  Me other the other hand, well we will just say I am not as faithful to exercising as I should be.  My little sister is probably somewhere in-between my brother and I.  For me, some of those trails seemed a little steep at times.  And I definitely was tired much sooner than my brother and sister.

If I had been more prepared for the chosen path the day would have gone a little differently for me.  I would have had the strength and power I needed to get through the trails a little better.  I wouldn’t have slowed my siblings down and held them back.  They would have been able to go farther that day without having me along.

So what’s my point?

“Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.” Psalm 119: 105

Being prepared for the spiritual path God has for us is so important!  If we are exercising our spiritual muscles through prayer and Bible reading, we are able to be better prepared.  If we are praying and talking to the Father throughout our days, we will know which part of the path He has designed for us.  We won’t be choosing the wrong path, and we won’t be slowing others down and holding them back. Instead,  we will be more available to encourage them on their own path and able to pray for them as God walks with them.

I am so grateful that God walks our path with us.  And I am so thankful that He pours grace over me when I make poor choices, or when I hold others back because I am not prepared the way I need to be.  (Just like my siblings were with me.)  But my desire is to be an available vessel for the Lord, and to do that, I NEED to be making preparations daily.  How about you?  Are you walking the path God has for you?   Are you preparing your heart just in case there is a steep incline in the path?  (If you aren’t walking one right now, there is one coming, so PREPARE!)